Feeld, #Open, Hinge - these days there are any number of sex-positive dating apps that have non-monogamy listed as a filter, which certainly makes it easier to throw your fishing line into the ENM-sea and see what's out there. Which is how, after 15 years of monogamy, I found myself, back in early 2023, nervously uploading a profile photo, a couple of lines of bio, and trying to get to grips with dating apps for the very first time. Back when J and I got together in 2010, pe