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"There’s something unbelievably erotic about my husband watching me get ready to go and have sex with another man..."

This week, I'm raising a glass to the true friends out there...

"Do you ever film your sexual encounters..? For an exhibitionist like me, there’s no better feeling..."

"Sometimes the sexiness of this lifestyle ebbs and flows. Nobody can be 'on' all the time - and that's okay!"

'People aren’t actually scared of non-monogamy. They’re scared of having the conversations that non-monogamy requires...’

"I don't think any one of us at that table wanted to waste any more time..."

"I'm here for great sex with great people, but how we get there is different for everybody..."

"She wanted to know what turns us on, what gets us off, what really makes us cum..."

"I couldn’t get away from this idea of what it would be like to step back and watch you, to enjoy your pleasure..."

Having an orgasm feels incredible, so why are we shy about saying that?

For ENM couples, does your fantasy/reality barometer simply slide further along the scale… or does the scale cease to exist?

Squirting, 17-deep orgies, and the best method for tackling an eye-wateringly enormous penis…

How much enthusiasm do we really want from the people we sleep with?

“With a social event, a ‘vibe-check’ drinks date, a sex party, a content creators photoshoot, and a potential orgy already booked in, 2025 i

"25 years into my sex life, I'm having the best sex I've ever had - and most of it with my husband!" Last Christmas… ahh it seems so long...

Feeld, #Open, Hinge - these days there are any number of sex-positive dating apps that have non-monogamy listed as a filter, which certainly makes it easier to throw your fishing line into the ENM-sea and see what's out there. Which is how, after 15 years of monogamy, I found myself, back in early 2023, nervously uploading a profile photo, a couple of lines of bio, and trying to get to grips with dating apps for the very first time. Back when J and I got together in 2010, pe

" Women love sex. We’re taking ownership of our bodies and our sex lives, and feel good doing it. Slut is no longer a dirty word. Yes, it...

“I could hear Eva moaning and turned my head to see her arched back on the sofa, her long dark hair spilling down the side, and J on the...

"It's time to get really, really, really comfortable talking about sex. This is no time to be coy..." Okay, so you've had that initial discussion, and you've both registered your 'interest,' so...what next? How do you begin? Here are six tips to taking your first steps towards building your ENM relationship... COMMUNICATION Yes it sounds like a bullshit first point - of course it does; like something that appears on every corporate ‘how to’ guide ever written. But this is rea

How can you sit between a man you’re in love with, and a man you want to have sex with…and everyone be okay? That was the big one I couldn’t get my head around when my husband, J, and I first started talking about exploring the world of ENM. We’re a regular couple, with busy jobs, kids, and a mortgage, a Netflix subscription and too much housework to stay on top of. I couldn’t picture how something as alien as ‘swinging’ could ever really fit into our lives. As an exhausted w